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| G Zine by Gary Schubach, Ed.D., A.C.S. |
Tenth Issue
March, 2003
1. Article of the Month - Male Ejaculatory Control
2. Questions of the Month - Too fast or too slow
3 Product of the Month - Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery
4. Video Review of the Month - The Lover's Guide to Ejaculatory Control
Male Ejaculatory Control
by
Gary Schubach, Ed.D., A.C.S.
I regularly receive a lot of mail from men asking me how they can control or delay ejaculation. Some say they "come too fast" while others have trouble orgasming at all. These are common occurrences and ones that have painful emotional and relationship consequences. Many men are looking for some kind of magic potion, pill, or ointment that will allow them to prolong or enhance their orgasms. The bad news is that there is no pill or potion that will resolve these issues. The good news is that men can train themselves to postpone ejaculation and, at the same time, greatly expand their experience of pleasure and orgasm, including the ability for men to have multiple orgasms without ejaculation.
The G Zone is proud to offer a number of articles, videotapes, ebooks, CDs, and audiotapes designed to help men obtain ejaculatory control while at the same time expanding their pleasure. These provide valuable exercises and techniques that can be used to help men to teach themselves how to achieve ejaculatory mastery, experience more pleasure, and become vastly better lovers for their partners. I guarantee they will really work if men follow them.
The newest proud addition to our website is the material on Ultimate Ejaculatory Mastery by Somraj Pokras. We also offer an excellent videotape, The Lover's Guide to Ejaculatory Control, Proven Techniques as well as Male Multiple Orgasm CD and the audiotape, Total Ejaculation Control for Men. Gonna Make That Pleasure Last, A manual for men who ejaculate too quickly is an excellent article on the subject.
Questions: Dear Dr. G,
I am having problems lasting long enough to get my girlfriend fully pleasured. Is there anything I can do to lengthen how long I can last in bed?
How can I delay my ejaculation and prolong my orgasms, thereby being able to pleasure my partner better?
I don't have a hard time getting an erection, but I have a hard time coming to an orgasm during intercourse with my girlfriend. I have no problem when I masturbate, and I held off of that for a month hoping that that was the problem. Is there anything wrong with me or am I just not very sensitive? If that is the case, is there anything that I can do to make my penis more sensitive?
How can I make my husband ejaculate quicker?
How do you improve the sensitivity of your penis? Staying power has never been a problem for me, but I do have difficulty having orgasms during intercourse. I attribute this to a lack of penile sensitivity. Is there anything I can do to change this?
These questions are about men and how they can control or delay ejaculation. Some saying they "come too fast" while others have trouble orgasming at all. Since some men are taking medications that retard ejaculation and there can be other physical sources to these problems, all men should make sure that they have discussed their situation with a knowledgeable physician. However, most of the time these problems are not physically based but are simply results of the lack of information and education that most of us had in forming our sexual patterns.
One thread that runs through these questions as well as others are the painful emotional and relationship consequences of not dealing with these issues. Men can learn how to control their ejaculation, while at the same time increasing sensitivity and even experience multiple orgasms, with and without ejaculation. I can testify to this because I learned how and the process is not a lot different than other disciplines that involve mind over body control. Some examples would include the ability to slow the heart rate through yoga and meditation.
The first step in transformation is recognizing that change is possible. I believe that we are evolutionary beings and have only explored a small percentage of our ultimate sexual potential. For men, just like with women, ejaculation and orgasm are not the same and it is totally possible to have one with or without the other. Obtaining ejaculatory mastery not only can help create more satisfying relationships but can also enhance and expand a man's self esteem. The kinds of exercises and techniques that are offered at the G Zone can train men how to obtain ejaculatory mastery. I highly recommend the exploration of these techniques.
Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery, by Somraj Pokras, is a new electronic book for men and the women who love them. It is the ultimate solution to premature ejaculation as well as an ecstatic approach to making love for as long as desired while men experience more ecstasy than they ever imagined possible.
Review of
The Lover's Guide to Ejaculatory Control
(1997, Pacific Media Entertainment)
by Dr. Gary Schubach
Control of ejaculation is an acute source of concern for many men and something that all men struggle with in one form or another. We want to be able to abandon ourselves to the excitement and the flow of passion in sexual intercourse without feeling that the duration of the pleasure for our partners and ourselves is out of our control. Yet the folk remedies that we have taken in through our checkered sexual education are either ineffective or else inhibit the full expression of our delight.
The good news is that there is a proven method to improve ejaculatory control and this is described in a step by step fashion in Pacific Media's Instructional Video: The Lover's Guide to Ejaculatory Control. Although we may spend a lot of time and effort working out to improve our overall fitness, muscle tone, and athletic abilities, the idea that simple exercises could greatly enhance our sexual pleasure and that of our partner is something we may not have considered. The Lover's Guide to Ejaculatory Control shows us how we can obtain voluntary control over previously involuntary aspects of our sexual functioning through a series of easily learned skills. These involve becoming aware of the point of no return, breathing, and awareness of muscle tension.
All of the exercises in The Lover's Guide to Ejaculatory Control are designed to be mastered as skills practiced separately from intercourse with a lover. With this method, learning the skills doesn't interfere with the rhythm of our lovemaking. As we grow in mastery, the skills become an integrated, natural part of what we do and don't require a lot of conscious attention. We practice alone and apply what we've learned with our lover.
Each of the three parts of the technique taught in The Lover's Guide to Ejaculatory Control are helpful in their own right and will have a positive impact on ejaculatory control. Although it may take some time to gain total control of ejaculation, any small improvements are still big steps forward. We are then in the position of being able to improve our sexual proficiency at will.
The instructions in The Lover's Guide to Ejaculatory Control are presented in a simple, easy to follow method and are well illustrated by the models in the video. A helpful Guide Book provides more information. Together, the Guide Book and video is a really useful how-to manual for improving ejaculatory control.
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