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Seventh Issue Article of the Month A POEM Given the events of the last few weeks and the unsettled feelings that are upon us all, it has been evident that the one thing that we all need is a sense of connection and closeness to others. We have an opportunity to connect with others, for us to reach out and touch someone we feel close to or want to feel close to. The following poem from The Lover's Guide to Ejaculatory Control touched and moved me so much that I had it transcribed in order to share with our readers. - Doctor G My mouth has learned to taste - to laugh - to savor - Question of the Month Every month, I choose one question or subject from the many letters that I receive. Question: Dear Dr G: I recently underwent a physical examination and, because I am 54 and have not ever had a prostate exam, they insisted I should. The family doctor examined me and, afterwards, I was going to ask what exactly she had done but did not. Up to this point in my life, I have had a wonderful sex life. My orgasms were powerful, multiple and I never had any problems of any kind. Since this examination, each orgasm has become less and less and now I have difficulty achieving an orgasm. If I am successful, it is disappointing. I have no problem with erections, my desire is the same, my orgasms are just not what they used to be. Everyone says it is because of my age. Do you think it could be anything else and do you have any suggestions? Answer: Thank you for your question. The fact that your orgasms would change so much after a simple rectal exam brings up an enormous red flag for me. I don't know if you also had a blood test for Prostate Specific Antigens or any indication of BPH, but I definitely would recommend your consulting a doctor with some training in human sexuality, possibly a urologist, to rule out all physiological possibilities for such a rapid change. Beyond that, there are an infinite number of factors involved in the creation of our perception of orgasm. Just as important as the physical component are the emotional and intellectual ones. It's also possible that concern about your prostate health plus stimulation of your prostate may have triggered an emotional reaction. In women, such emotional reactions often occur after the first time they have had their prostates (aka g-spots) stimulated. - Doctor G Video Review of the Month Review of (1997, Pacific Media Entertainment) Control of ejaculation is an acute source of concern for many men and something that all men struggle with in one form or another. We want to be able to abandon ourselves to the excitement and the flow of passion in sexual intercourse without feeling that the duration of the pleasure for our partners and ourselves is out of our control. Yet the folk remedies that we have taken in through our checkered sexual education are either ineffective or else inhibit the full expression of our delight. The good news is that there is a proven method to improve ejaculatory control and this is described in a step by step fashion in Pacific Media's Instructional Video: The Lover's Guide to Ejaculatory Control. Although we may spend a lot of time and effort working out to improve our overall fitness, muscle tone, and athletic abilities, the idea that simple exercises could greatly enhance our sexual pleasure and that of our partner's is something we may not have considered. The Lover's Guide to Ejaculatory Control shows us how we can obtain voluntary control over previously involuntary aspects of our sexual functioning through a series of easily learned skills. These involve becoming aware of the point of no return, breathing, and awareness of muscle tension. All of the exercises in The Lover's Guide to Ejaculatory Control are designed to be mastered as skills practiced separately from intercourse with a lover. With this method, learning the skills doesn't interfere with the rhythm of our lovemaking. As we grow in mastery, the skills become an integrated, natural part of what we do and don't require a lot of conscious attention. We practice alone and apply what we've learned with our lover. Each of the three parts of the technique taught in The Lover's Guide to Ejaculatory Control are helpful in their own right and will have a positive impact on ejaculatory control. Although it may take some time to gain total control of ejaculation, any small improvements are still big steps forward. We are then in the position of being able to improve our sexual proficiency at will. The instructions in The Lover's Guide to Ejaculatory Control are presented in a simple, easy to follow method and are well illustrated by the models in the video. A helpful Guide Book provides more information. Together, the Guide Book and video is a really useful how-to manual for improving ejaculatory control. Product of the Month Every couple can learn to extend their sexual pleasure with the breakthrough, clinically-tested techniques developed by physician and world-renowned human sexuality expert, Dr. Jean-Yves Desjardins. Discover the easy-to-learn and scientifically-proven methods to increase your partner's pleasure and build her arousal so she may reach a fully satisfying orgasm. This world-class program includes and ancient secrets about how to control his breath, how to properly position his body and how to maintain the pace of his lovemaking until the desired moment of orgasm is achieved. Any couple has the key to greater pleasure and longer, more satisfying orgasms with the total ejaculation control techniques featured in this extraordinary guide to extended pleasure for men and women. 30 min. - $24.95
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