Evidence of 'Female Prostate' Found

Evidence of 'Female Prostate' Found
Renal and Urology News - New York,NY,USA

Researchers in Vienna say they have found evidence of a “female prostate,” according to a report in the Journal of Sexual Medicine (2007;4:1388-1393).

High-definition perineal ultrasound images obtained from two premenopausal women who reported fluid expulsion during orgasm (ejaculation) revealed a structure “consistent with the gland tissue surrounding the entire length of the female urethra.” On ureteroscopy, the investigators observed one midline opening just inside the external meatus in the 6 o'clock position. “Biochemically, the fluid emitted during orgasm showed all the parameters found in prostate plasma in contrast to values measured in voided urine,” the authors wrote.

ELECTRIC SEX

ELECTRIC SEX by Sunny Burns
Sydney Star Observer - Sydney,New South Wales,Australia

Are you a blow and go lover or an unsatisfied partner constantly faking orgasms? Maybe it’s time for you to understand the hidden secrets of Tantra.

Sex is no endurance activity. Forget timesheets and deadlines because good sex is all about control, emotions and technique and some like to believe that love has a significant impact.

Tantra is an ancient South Asian spiritual tradition that takes many different forms. Tantric practices can give any couple practical ways to reduce conflict, deepen intimacy and experience a far richer sex life.

The Essence of Tantric Sexuality author Mark A. Michaels said the ancient Tantrics understood that the sexual experience – in high states of arousal and orgasm – affords ordinary people the easiest access to mystical states.

“For any couple the Tantric approach to relating is radically different from the conventional model,” he said.

“By treating one’s partner as an object of reverence and the relationship itself as a collaboration, a profound shift in consciousness can take place, one that leads to powerful bonding.”

Apparently the real secret of Tantric sex lies in prolonging arousal. While Tantra is a vast subject that could be studied over many lifetimes, once you understand that prolonging arousal is the key, you’ve learned the most important sexual secret.

“It’s valuable for men to learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation. Once you’ve learned to do this, you can begin to spread orgasmic sensations throughout the body,” Michaels said.

“Many women are naturally able to have full body orgasms, but those who aren’t may need to learn to direct energy in the same way that most men do.

“The secret lies in building arousal, going almost to the point of no return, and then pulling the energy up into the body. In Tantric lovemaking, it’s important to bring the whole body into the experience. We often refer to a conventional orgasm, which involves only a limited physical area, as a genital sneeze.

“The G spot and the prostate are analogous, and you can take your partner to great heights if you know how to stimulate them properly. That said, there’s nothing particularly Tantric about G spot or prostate massage.”

What’s handy in having great sex is an understanding of your partner’s erogenous zones. These zones are categorised as primary, secondary and tertiary.

“The primaries are obvious, the lips, mouth, breasts, nipples, and the genitals. The secondaries are a little more obscure – the nape of the neck and the earlobe to name a couple – while many of the tertiaries may seem even more surprising – the thumb and little finger,” Michaels said.

“When using this system, you begin by stimulating a secondary zone, then a primary, then a secondary, then a tertiary, and then a primary. The idea is to build arousal systematically and intentionally. Once you’ve learned to work with the zones in a formal way, you can improvise. It’s really delightful.”

Having some form of spiritual or meditative practice can help create a groundedness and clarity that will be very useful. On a physical level, anyone with an interest in practising Tantra should learn to pulse their pubococcygeal or PC muscles.

“When pulsing the muscles it’s important to squeeze, release and bear down slightly, so that the entire range of motion is involved,” Michaels said. “For women, this bearing down is the movement that accompanies ejaculatory orgasm, so it’s valuable to become familiar with it.”

'Orgasmic Diet' promises to really hit the G-spot

The Daily News - Halifax,Nova Scotia,Canada

BY KATHY LETTE

The problem with married sex is not women faking orgasms, but men faking foreplay, says the author.

The female orgasm is more of a mystery than the Bermuda Triangle. One of the greatest differences between the sexes is that men always seem to be in the mood. For women, however, arousal and satisfaction are much more complicated.

Husbands seem bemused about female sexual dysfunction. How can a woman lose her orgasm? What is it? A sock? Is it in some sexual laundry basket waiting to be paired so it can become a multiple orgasm?

People often lose things. Their tempers. Their sense of humor. Their figures. (Do the words "control top pantyhose" mean anything to you?) Their minds. But not their orgasm.

But for nearly half the female population, the orgasm has become more elusive than the yeti. Couples are out there now, searching with as much vigor and dedication as we once looked for Amelia Earhart.

With impotence drugs such as Viagra worth more than $2.6 billion, drug companies are now keen to make profit out of female sexual dissatisfaction.

But the author Marrena Lindberg claims a more natural solution. She has written ""The Orgasmic Diet, a book that promises to give "all women the ability to have orgasms within two weeks, even if they have never had one before."

Even if you are lucky enough to reach orgasm regularly, the book promises to make the experiences even bigger and better.

Always greedy for more of anything, I agreed to stick to the diet for three weeks. (Hey, any diet that counsels you to devour a couple of squares of dark chocolate every day is okay by me.)

The fish oil supplements, however, proved harder to swallow. Literally. The dose the book recommends, 2.5 grams of EPA and 2 grams of DHA, actually means eight biggish tablets a day. I've ingested so much fish oil I'm swimming upstream in the bath.

The fish oil is supposed to release dopamine, the feel-good chemical associated with the emotions of anticipation and desire. But by week two, the only thing I was anticipating with desire was giving up taking so many damn tablets.

The third element of the diet is to cut down on carbohydrates. Apparently, too much starch stimulates serotonin.

This is also a feel-good brain chemical, but an excess makes you too hyper to surrender to a sexy mood because you're too busy thinking about all the things you have to do.

Men, take note. Serotonin or no serotonin, women think of a great many things while making love. Topics include: "I wonder if my boobs would look bigger if I lay on my side?

"I haven't told him how much I spent on those sandals. Will he understand that it's genetically impossible for a woman to walk past a shoe sale and not buy something irrational and strappy?

"I glimpsed Angelina Jolie on television this morning and she looked a little plump."

Meanwhile, the only thing going through the average man's mind while making love is "Phwoarrrrrr."

I digress. The next step is to increase your testosterone. What this means is replacing those carbohydrates with lots of nonstarchy fruit and vegetables, plus protein at every meal.

I was also told to give up coffee. Giving up carbs was okay, but coffee? I'm a working mother.

Still, keen to discover the New and Improved Libidinous Me, I stuck to the rest of the diet as best I could for three weeks. With growing excitement I waited for the wakeup call to my senses, the hormonal reveille.

Any minute now the air would crackle with sexual heat, like a fuse burning toward a bomb. I was going to discover in myself a passion so fiery that not even that daredevil oil-well capper Red Adair could quench it.

When that Big O came, I felt sure I'd cry out with such intense ecstasy that my neighbors would be confused whether it was an orgasm or demonic possession. My partner wouldn't know whether to offer a postcoital cigarette or an exorcist.

So, what happened? Did the yeti come in from the cold? Did I discover the zip code of the Bermuda Triangle?

Yes! Yes! Yessss!!!

But was it due to the diet? Or the fact that eating less dessert and sugar means losing weight, and if you feel better about your body, you're more inclined to want to show it off naked and be more confident when doing so. The more confident you are, the more relaxed you are ... and, hormonal Houston, we have liftoff.

Yes, fish oils increase blood flow, crucial for sexual pleasure, but as the book also recommends taking up exercise, it might be the daily jog, which had my heart, not to mention other parts of my anatomy, pumping so furiously.

We know that men will have sex with anything. The female orgasm, however, is profoundly dependent on the psychological and emotional landscape.

Too many men expect their wives to come home from work, make dinner, do the ironing, finish the kids' homework, defrost the chops for tomorrow, put the washing on, pack the dishwasher - then jump into bed purring like a sex kitten.

But let me tell you, when a mother flops, exhausted, between the sheets, the one thing she's fantasizing about is sleep. He's in the mood for love. You're in the mood for running him through with a bread knife. Especially if he hasn't helped you all evening.

But I'm convinced that if a husband would do the odd Sensitive Thing, like helping out in the kitchen, his wife might be inclined to do something sensitive to him, in a horizontal capacity.

Although, talking to my women friends, one of their main complaints is that too many husbands only hug their wives when they're horizontal. It seems to me that the trouble with married sex is not women faking orgasms, but men faking foreplay. And as wordplay is foreplay for women, talking and hugging out of bed are vital.

All women dream of being taken - preferably by a muscular Adonis. But most wives are being taken only for granted. So I would say forget the orgasm diet. Just help with the housework, guys, and your wife will soon be eager to show you her appreciation.

Kathy Lette is the author of "How to Kill Your Husband"and"Dead Sexy." © DailyMail

How Do I Find My G Spot?

QUESTION TO DOCTORG:

I have been trying to find my G Spot. I would love to be able to ejaculate. I have several and very strong orgasms when having sex but have never experienced ejaculation. My doctor has said that I have a tilted uterus..tilted to the back. Could this be getting in the way of my GSpot? Please help!

You might want to read some of the articles that I have posted on my site regarding the G Spot controversy. Gräfenberg himself made it very clear that there is no "spot." However, what there is is a prostate gland that completely surrounds the urethra. In most women, it is located closest to the urethral opening. Just imagine the line of the urethra going up the middle of your groin to your bladder. You can stimulate your female prostate (G Spot) through the upper wall of the vagina, generally close to the vaginal opening or sometimes by massaging it from the outside at a point just above your pubic bone. You should feel an initial desire to go to the bathroom which should let you know you are on the right track.

Also, we feature four excellent educational video/DVDs which discuss the female prostate (G Spot) and female ejaculation and show it explicitly. They are: Liquid Love: The G-Spot Explosion, Expand Her Orgasm Tonight!, Ancient Secrets of Sexual Ecstasy, and The Amazing G-Spot & Female Ejaculation. Additionally, the Crystal Wand that we sell is a very good tool for finding and stimulating the female prostate (G Spot). - Doctor G

An Author Who Claims To Have Found The G-Spot By Placing Emphasis on Touch and Physical Contact

American Chronicle - Beverly Hills,CA,USA
Norm Goldman

Today, Norm Goldman, Publisher & Editor of Bookpleasures.com is excited to have as his guest, Michael Schuessler author of The Holy G-Rail. Michael is also a photographer, painter and student of the Kabbalah.

According to Michael, his book, The Holy G-Rail provides a comprehensive guide to finding and releasing the G-Spot, an area that some believe to be the cornerstone of sex. What is revolutionary about his discovery is that it places the emphasis on locating this spot by touch and physical contact.

Good day Michael and thanks for participating in our interview.

Thank you Norm, Bookpleasures.com, Authorsden.com and Americanchronicle.com so very much for having me, I really appreciate it!

Norm:

What motivated you to write The Holy G-Rail?

Michael:

Norm, in all reality it was a gift from above; an epiphany of sorts.

My Special Lover, (I call her this to keep her identity concealed,) and I were experimenting, adding some different sexual excitement to our lives. We came upon the G-Spot Orgasm quite accidentally.

It was a miraculous and a mind-blowing thing. Especially considering my Special Lovers prior conditioning, and the many years it took for her, to allow me to release her through clitoral stimulation.

Do not get me wrong; she is a very sexual being! She just had been conditioned to stimulate and release herself after pleasing her partner. It took a lot of patience and study to get her off in that way, so when indirectly we found this new release, the G-Spot release, and felt how powerful it was. I just had to share it with the world. I just couldn’t believe how different of an orgasm it was, or how really simple it was to accomplish. I couldn’t believe that no one had ever approached the G-Spot in this manner before. By the sensation of touch and feel, and by the relation of mans genitalia to that of a woman’s. This, rather than the usual maps and diagrams with an X that marks the spot.

Norm:

What is the big deal about the G Spot and is there scientific evidence that it does in fact exist or is it all in one’s mind?

Michael:

As far as scientific evidence I believe the jury is out on that one, probably 70% agreeing and 30% undecided. As far as practical evidence; trust me the G-Spot does exist! My Special Lover can release through the clitoris in many fantastic ways, yet when she G-Spot orgasms… Let me tell you she is wiped out! Usually she is very vocal when she releases through the clitoris. But when she G-Spot orgasms it is so INTENSE that she can’t scream. It totally blows her away.

Now I do believe that female ejaculation and the G-Spot Orgasm is a gray area in the scientific realm. WE need much more research in this area. (SMILES)

I do know that the G-Spot Orgasm is a pre-requisite to female ejaculation. But I do not see any evidence that one must ejaculate to have had the G-Spot Orgasm. In fact only a small percentage of the Women or couples I had try The Holy G-rail’s system, experienced female ejaculation the first time they released through the G-Spot.

Here’s the most exciting part of these findings, women from 20 to well over 50 years old with moderate to very sexual appetites experience the G-Spot Orgasm for the very first time in their lives. They say it is totally different then the clitoral release. In fact you know you have it when your special someone goes out of her way to please you, and when you are wondering what is up something must be wrong… She smiles, and with a smirk on her face says, “Can I have the “G” this weekend?”

Norm:

Why are books on love, romance, and relationships so popular today? Are we a nation in emotional crisis?

Michael:

I think it’s an escape of sorts. Women love to fantasize as much as men do. It’s all about communication; sometimes it’s hard for us to be honest with one another to say what we want. It’s that deep down fear of rejection. Books on love and romance allow one to escape without fear. We need to let our Lover know that the fantasy can be real. That it’s ok to experience love and sex. It’s ok to communicate what you do and do not like.

Throughout The Holy G-rail I try to impress these things; with chapters on Self-Love, Communication, Patience, and even on the process of warming up your partner. All of these hints tell the reader that every thing is OK as long as we are honest with our feelings. I mean really we are sharing the most intimate parts of our being with each other. We really should be able to talk and share these wants and fantasies with each other! If we are able to do these things in the private areas of our lives, it truly can create happiness in All-Ways and aspects our day-to-day lives.

Are we a nation in emotional crisis? No, I do not believe so, I think if we just get down to honesty and lose the fear, first in the bedroom with our most intimate partners. Then we can let our guard down, just a little in the main areas of our day-to-day lives.

Norm:

Does your writing career ever conflict with your other careers such as painter and photographer?

Michael:

No, not at all! Creativity comes in many different forms. As long as I’m being creative it’s all good. I believe in the creative sensuality of movement; Desire that is what all life is about, in All-Ways!

Plus I really enjoy the research!! (Grins)

Norm:

Whom do you believe will benefit from your book and why?

Michael:

Everyone! The Holy G-rail promotes not only sexual happiness through the G-Spot release, but also emotional and spiritual release through communication and patience. With my Spiritual background I have subtly given hints to increase all areas of this, the life we lead. Yet I have kept it simple to read and easy to perform, so as not to bore or preach. All the information is there, all you have to do is be open to it!

Norm:

How has the feedback been so far? As a follow up, although the book is addressed to men, what has been the reaction of women to your book?

Michael:

The feedback has been fantastic! From the regular everyday person to the medical community!

<> I actually get a better response from women. They see it is written in a caring subtle way, that their partner will not find threatening if it is given as a gift. It is short, easy to read, totally works, and promotes all aspects of communication, patience, even sexual foreplay and self-love; the simpler things that are sometimes forgotten. It is also written in a romance type of way. It’s exciting mentally, sexually and emotionally. I compare the women within our lives to “The Holy Grail”, which do I believe they are!

Men tend to feel a little intimidated. They do not want to seem like they need advice in any aspect of their sexual lives. Although after they read the book, they find a simple approach to an area that they never knew existed on their partner. In addition to this, they find that their partner will do things that they never dreamed! This because, he has taken time to release her “G” to give her the respect of caring enough to talk to her, take time with her, and listen to her needs! This creates a release within her in ways he never dreamed of! They end up recognizing that if they give it all up for her, in the end they will get it all back tenfold! It affects every aspect of their lives. It is a truly wondrous thing!

Norm:

Can you explain some of your research techniques, and how you found sources for your book?

Michael:

Norm, I must say research was the simplest of processes as far as the book goes. As soon as my Special Lover and I experience the G-Spot Orgasm for the first time, and I had the Epiphany, it was just a matter of finding willing participants, women and couples that wanted to excel sexually and that had never experienced the G-Spot Orgasm. I have to tell you there are a lot of women and couples that haven’t experienced this wondrous release! I did confirm my theory with numerous books and videos. Again this is nothing new, the G-Spot that is. What is different is my approach to this wondrous area within that chalice of life that lies before us. Approaching it by the relation of mans genitalia to that of a woman’s and by texture and feel.

Norm:

Can you tell us how you found representation for your book? Did you pitch it to an agent, or query publishers who would most likely publish this type of book? Any rejections? Did you self-publish?

Michael:

Well Norm, my publicist is a true believer; she spends sleepless nights finding new and exciting ways and avenues for me to get the message that The Holy G-rail has to offer out to the public!

As far as publishers, we queried many. For me it was a matter of excitement; the excitement I did or did not feel from the publisher. I really felt an overwhelming pressure from within to get the information I had to share out. Also at the time, before the manuscript was finished, Playboy Radio had already contacted me to be on as a guest with Tiffany Granath, on “The Afternoon Advice Show”.

Most of the larger publishing companies I had contacted would not have had the book ready to go to the press for at least 6-8 more months. So I self-published with no binding contract, that way I can pursue a larger publishing company after they see the progress, recognition and sales that the book has gained. Again I felt like I needed to strike while the iron was hot! In retrospect I believe I made the correct choice. I have had 13 + interviews since the release at the end of January of this year, and have already surpassed 500 + in sales. If I had gone with a larger publishing company it would not have been published until now, and the momentum I started with would have been gone.

Norm:

What challenges or obstacles did you encounter while writing your book? How did you overcome these challenges?

Michael:

The first challenge was time, finding the time. The inspiration was there but I found myself on numerous occasions watching the sunrise and then having to put a full day in doing other work.

The other main challenge was not allowing my editor to change my intentions or inflections within the book. This was very tough; one word would change the whole intention of a sentence, or phrase.

I spent many painstaking hours removing words or changing them so as not to tell the reader what to do, to gently nudge or suggest an intention. After the first edit a lot of the changes were right back in; OUCH! That truly was the challenge; keeping my writing style, and not allowing the editor to overtake the book with his style of writing. After many one on one talks with him and re-edits he became accustomed to what I wanted to portray and inflect and it paid off.

Norm:

I noticed from reading your bio that you are a student of the Kabbalah. How did you become interested in the Kabala and how has it influenced your writing, painting and photography?

Michael

Wow that’s a long story; but I’ll keep it short. Basically I started within orthodox religion. I was brought up to believe in a wrathful God. At a certain age after some painful loss I decided that, living in fear wasn’t the way to live. So I searched, missed the mark so to speak a couple of times, and finally found the Kabbalah or rather it found me!

It showed me how to interpret life, love, and that Higher power, the One –Self, rather than function on blind faith and fear. I believe that everything that Is, Was, and Will-Be, is here now, and that I am a center of Expression for the Primal Will to Good which eternally creates and sustains the universe.

How does this influence my Creativity? All of life is Creativity sparked by Desire, we have only to tap into this inexhaustible energy and All-Things are in All-Ways within our reach!

Norm:

Is there anything else you wish to add that we have not covered and what is next for Michael Schuessler?

Michael:

What’s next? More creativity on all levels, (Smiles)

I have in the works 5 more Volumes of “The Holy G-rail”. I have had such an overwhelming positive response to the book and to my weekly blogs on my space, (www.myspace.com/theholyg) that I feel I need to expand the individual chapters of the book. So be looking for:

The Holy G-rail - Vol. I, The road through Self-love.

The Holy G-rail - Vol. II, Simplifying the journey through Clarified Communication.

The Holy G-rail - Vol. III, Treading lightly with Patience.

The Holy G-rail - Vol. IV, Expanding your warm-up techniques.

The Holy G-rail - G-Spot, R-Relating, A-Anatomy, I-Into, L-Lovemaking. (The completed volume)

Changing The World One Orgasm At A Time™ - All roads lead to the Holy Grail.