The evidence of this experiment
is clear and groundbreaking that the vast majority of the fluid expelled
by women during sexual arousal originates in the bladder. Furthermore,
that fluid, which passes through the urethra, may be "deurinized"
liquid from the bladder. Additionally, in some women and at
some times, a small discharge may be added from the female equivalent
of the prostate gland, medically known as Skene's glands and long
thought to be dormant and no longer functional, and which may be neither.
It has not yet
been proven for certain whether women can expel at least
a small amount of fluid from their urethral (prostate) glands, during
a very deep and intense orgasm, but I sense that it is very
close to being proven. Past research has indicated that most women
have urethral glands and ducts about a third the size of the prostate
gland of the average man, so the amount of fluid that might be emitted
would naturally be likely to be less.
In my study, having segregated
the urethra from the bladder, we observed, at least for our seven
subjects, that more than 95% of the fluid expelled during sexual
arousal originated I n the bladder. However, that fluid contained
an average of only 25% of the amounts of urea and creatinine found
in the subjects' baseline urine samples. We theorized that it may
lose the appearance and smell of urine due to the secretion of the
hormone aldosterone during sensual/sexual arousal, causing the re-absorption
of sodium and the excretion of potassium by the kidneys.15
Furthermore, I found research material indicating that an involuntary
opening of the bladder sphincter can be triggered with stimulation
of either the G Crest or the clitoris or both simultaneously."16
Moreover, on five occasions
we observed a small milky discharge from the urethra which may mix
in the urethra with the fluid from the bladder. So it is possible
that the ejaculatory fluid originates not from either the
bladder or the urethral glands, but from both.
For the scientific community
to keep saying that the fluid originating in the bladder is solely
the result of urinary stress incontinence is a vast oversimplification.
The same muscles, nerves, sphincters and reflexes may be involved
in female ejaculation as in urinary stress incontinence but this
is not urination and we do not want to leave women nor their partners
with the impression that they are inappropriately urinating during
sexual arousal. It should also be noted that, at least in American
culture, there are strong negative associations with urination and
defecation even though urine, of course, is sterile and not all
cultures have the same biases regarding it.
However,
if female ejaculation is viewed as natural and pleasurable, then
a woman can feel good about her body as well as all fluids that
come out of it. She can then experience these expulsions during
sexual arousal more positively than in a situation in which these
expulsions are considered "dirty," or a malfunction of the bladder,
urogenital system or any of its components.

Desmond Heath, a New
York psychiatrist, offered an interesting hypothesis on the question
of whether all women can ejaculate and, if so, why don't they? Basically,
it is his premise that little girls often become excited in their
lives and this may result in their dribbling a few drops of urine.
He theorizes that this is probably followed by some form of displeasure
by their parents or other adults, along with an admonition that
this is bad and wrong, possibly accompanied by feelings of shame
on the part of the child. Often punishment follows. Subsequently,
women learn to keep their pubococcygeal muscles contracted and don't
allow the pelvic floor to relax. Later on, when they become sexually
active, it is natural that most women find it difficult to feel
emotionally safe enough to allow themselves to become aroused sufficiently
to ejaculate."17
For women, relaxation
and emotional safety are crucial in order to become aroused and
stimulated enough so that at orgasm they can ejaculate. At such
moments a woman might expel voluminous amounts of fluid from a nearly
empty bladder, the fluid having only a tinge of the odor, smell
or appearance of normal urine. However, for this to happen to women
naturally and normally, our society will have to abandon its puritanical
ancestry and celebrate this event as a symbol of a woman fully enjoying
bodily pleasure.
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