Control
of ejaculation is an acute source of concern for many men and something
that all men struggle with in one form or another. We want to be able
to abandon ourselves to the excitement and the flow of passion in
sexual intercourse without feeling that the duration of the pleasure
for our partners and ourselves is out of our control. Yet the folk
remedies that we have taken in through our checkered sexual education
are either ineffective or else inhibit the full expression of our
delight.
The good
news is that there is a proven method to improve ejaculatory control and
this is described in a step by step fashion in Pacific Media's Instructional
Video: The Lover's Guide to Ejaculatory Control. Although
we may spend a lot of time and effort working out to improve our overall
fitness, muscle tone, and athletic abilities, the idea that simple exercises
could greatly enhance our sexual pleasure and that of our partner's is
something we may not have considered. The Lover's Guide shows us how we
can obtain voluntary control over previously involuntary aspects of our
sexual functioning through a series of easily learned skills. These involve
becoming aware of the point of no return, breathing, and awareness of
muscle tension.
All of the
exercises in The Lover's Guide to Ejaculatory Control are
designed to be mastered as skills practiced separately from intercourse
with a lover. With this method, learning the skills doesn't interfere
with the rhythm of our lovemaking. As we grow in mastery, the skills become
an integrated, natural part of what we do and don't require a lot of conscious
attention. We practice alone and apply what we've learned with our lover.
Each of the
three parts of the technique taught in the Lover's Guide are helpful in
their own right and will have a positive impact on ejaculatory control.
Although it may take some time to gain total control of ejaculation, any
small improvements are still big steps forward. We are then in the position
of being able to improve our sexual proficiency at will.
The instructions
in The Lover's Guide to Ejaculatory Control are presented
in a simple, easy to follow method and are well illustrated by the models
in the video. A helpful Guide Book provides more information. Together,
the Guide Book and video is a really useful how-to manual for improving
ejaculatory control.